I was perusing the web the other day and found a great blog by somebody named A.C.:
http://www.howtocheatonyourgirl.com/blog/
It’s more geared to the dating scene, rather than the old married folk like me. But there are still valuable nuggets of information there, and I intend to put some of the ideas into practice.
It may seem that the whole purpose of my blog flies in the face of his Second Unbreakable Rule: Don’t hook up with chicks from work. And I must say, A.C. has got some good points — namely, that if things go sour, women at work can effectively ruin your career. But again, since his site is geared towards the unmarried kids, I think that the rule should be stated as:
“Don’t hook up with unmarried chicks from work.”
If you look at my list of hotties, most of the women are, in fact, married. And the reason is obvious: they have just as much, if not more, to lose if their indiscretions are revealed. It’s the ol’ double standard: Men who cheat are romanticized; women who cheat are unfortunately cast as whores. A pity, if you ask me, but it does give the guys an advantage. But even without the double standard, the risk still applies. An old girlfriend of mine (who actually cheated on me) called it ”fear of betrayal.” Both parties are held in kind of a cold-war mutual annihilation scenario: if you tell on me, I tell on you. If you ruin my marriage, I ruin yours.
I prefer not to dwell upon such unpleasantries. I just keep flirting.
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